If a woman says she fears men or hates them, shut up and listen.
She doesn’t care that you are a self proclaimed “good guy”
Honestly, if your response to a woman’s trauma and fear is to say “hey, I’m not like that!” then you are not as good as you think you are
Okay yeah please shut up. For one, no one is talking about relationships. Not every women is into men.
Two, when violence against women is SO common and so fucking many women have been physically/sexually assaulted, molested, and raped, harassed and stalked, threatened, been in abusive relationships, lived their entire lives being fetishized, and otherwise traumatizing experiences, (chances increasing significantly for woc, transwomen, and disabled women), AND THEN it’s brushed away or seen as acceptable by other people and a society as a whole, women are generally left with some sort of fear or resentment.
This isn’t about some dude cheating on his girlfriend and her saying “ugh men suck.” The point is, if a women expresses her emotions effected by traumas and past experiences due to men, because it sure as hell usually isn’t caused by just one but by also effected by men as a whole in a patriarchal society from social norms, stigmas, and rape culture, and you respond with needing YOURSELF validated as a man by saying “well I’M not like that,” which only silences her voice and trivializing her experiences, you’re not that great of a fucking person and you sure a hell need to shut the fuck up, sit the fuck down, learn to listen more, and stop putting yourself at highest priority.
Male fantasies, male fantasies, is everything run by male fantasies? Up on a pedestal or down on your knees, it’s all a male fantasy: that you’re strong enough to take what they dish out, or else too weak to do anything about it. Even pretending you aren’t catering to male fantasies is a male fantasy: pretending you’re unseen, pretending you have a life of your own, that you can wash your feet and comb your hair unconscious of the ever-present watcher peering through the keyhole, peering through the keyhole in your own head, if nowhere else. You are a woman with a man inside watching a woman. You are your own voyeur.
Palestinians don’t have basic humanitarian supplies. No food or clean water and the Israeli army is given luxuries.
Never buy Garnier. Filth.
hey bump this shit because this is fucking horrid
I’d already stopped using their shit but here’s some motivation not to go back.
No amount of make-up or luxury goods can wipe off the ugly of these killers.